I know my Father

I have been a Young Women's Leader in our ward for almost a year now. Though most of the time I wonder why they would ever call me to be a leader, I know deep down I am meant for this job.

I love my girls. I love learning about the new Beehives coming in and watching them grow in to these amazing Young Women. We have truly been blessed to be a part of an incredible ward. We are surrounded by these great examples of what I call "powerhouse people". Where you can feel their spirit shining through and the warmth of their testimony.

One family that we have looked up to has been the Barkdull's. Larry and Buffy Barkdull are this adorable older couple in our ward and their oldest son Gavin and his wife Tanya live just two doors down from them. When we first moved in Buffy was in the RS presidency and came over a few times and was just the sweetest thing while getting to know me. She felt so warm and genuine. Larry ALWAYS has a smile on his face, so friendly to others, and able to give a gospel doctrine class at a moments notice.

Gavin is in the bishopric and is unbelievably sweet.  I have served with his wife Tanya in YW and have loved her more every day. She has an amazing vocal talent.

On September 5th, Larry suddenly passed away. It came as a shock to the entire ward that loved him and his family so much. We were all at a loss as to what we could do to help. Amanda Sheilds (YW leader) felt impressed to go over and sing to them .

When we arrived on their door, they greeted us with tears in their eyes as we sang a few hymns. When we finished Brother Barkdull gave us each a hug and said


"I know my Father and I know my Father. And I know you know what that means. It is going to be ok. Yes, we are sad as we mourn the loss of my Fathers sudden passing, but I know we will see him again. I have such a testimony of the Plan of Salvation. It will all be ok"

I was so impressed that someone going through so much greif was able to put those hard feelings aside and comfort all of the Young Women with his strong testimony.